A new boy has entered my world. He's complicated, fascinating, funny and vague. I was thinking about this on my way to work this morning and remembered Humphrey Bogart's character 'Rick' in Casablanca. Rick is hurt and damaged all because of his great love. One of my favourite lines in the movie is when a disgruntled lover of Rick's asks him to have dinner that night and he simply replies "I never plan that far in advance". I'm going out on a limb here, but I think I've met a 'Rick' and I'm a deer in the head lights. To run or stay?