Wait, just a minute.

Monday, May 4, 2009

Communication is one of the most important things in any relationship. Sharing the way you feel and listening to the other person's point of view is so important. Sometimes we jump in and do or say things we might regret without waiting, just for a minute, to listen to, or consider the other side of things. A perfect example of this is Carrie's reaction to Big in the Sex and The City Movie. Big gets cold feet and doesn't think he can go through with the wedding, but as he's driving away he realises the mistake he's making. Before he gets a chance to tell Carrie this she is beating him with her bouquet without taking a moment to stop and listen. Maybe I would have done the same thing, but I hope in a similar situation I could wait, just a minute and listen. 


  1. OMG - I LOVED this scene. It was SO powerful and astounding, it still gives me goosebumps. I agree with you, though - I thought Carrie's reaction was pretty over the top, which leads me to my long-held belief - she should never have married Mr Big. It was her intense inner doubt about him that made her doubt him so easily. I'm telling you now - it won't last. Alas, dear Carrie.


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